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Heather Havrilesky


Heather Havrilesky writes the Ask Polly advice columnist, formerly on New York Magazine, now on Substack. She is the author of Foreverland: On the Divine Tedium of Marriage (2022), the essay collection What If This Were Enough (2018), the advice book How to Be a Person in the World (2016), and the memoir Disaster Preparedness (2010). She also maintains the Ask Molly newsletter, written by Polly’s evil twin, and has written for The New Yorker, the New York Times Magazine, The Atlantic, and many other publications. She lives in Chapel Hill, North Carolina with her husband, two daughters, and two dogs.

Feb. 1, 2022

Happy Enough Ever After with Heather Havrilesky

For this week’s episode, Emily was thrilled to chat with Ask Polly and Ask Molly columnist Heather Havrilesky, whose new book, " Foreverland: On the Divine Tedium of Marriage " is out February 8. Emily and Heather talk parent...

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